Good morning, Welcome to Day 24 of the Ultimate Blog Challenge for October. Can you believe there is only 7 more days in October. Which means we will have finished another challenge? How did you do with this one? For me I stunk at it but I am still trying and I refuse to give up.
This mornings prompt ask us if you were sitting on your front porch or in a coffee shop with one of your blog readers, what would you chat about? What would you like them to know? Or what would you like to know about them? Share it in a blog post.
For me if I was sitting on the porch with you I would ask you to tell me something that know one else knows about you. As well as how would you like to have conduct a guest post on your blog they can be dead or alive.
For me it would be my daughter as I would like for her to share with me what happened the day she was killed. Did she know it was going to happen? Did she feel any pain? What happened after she was taken to the hospital? What has she been up to all these years? Then I would ask her if she remained the same age or if she grew up?
Then I would ask her if my mom is with her. What she thinks of her dad Everett and what he did to me. As well as what she thinks of David and his family? Along with her brother Charlie and David’s kids. As well as her own sisters and brothers.
Then I would ask her what she missed the most about being here. Then I would ask her if she knows how much I lover her and miss her. How I would have given my life for her. Then I would ask her if I could hug her one more time before she returns to Heaven.
As she gets ready to return to Heaven I would try and be brave and send her off with a kiss and no, tears although I don’t promise that. Then I would ask her if there is anything she wants me to tell her Aunt, Cousin, Uncle or grandpa.
Then I would ask her to let my mom know how much I miss her and that I love her and Charlie talks about her all the time. Then I would remind her to give my grandparents and all of our friends and family hugs from me. Then I would send her back to God.
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Thank you,
Glenda, Charlie and David
Since I spend an inordinate amount of time at a coffee shop 6 days a week, I can tell you what we do. We solve all the world’s problems before 9:30, so we can get to work. And, then the world creates new ones for us to solve tomorrow.
I’ve thought about these things sometimes, wondering about someone who has passed on. I’m so sorry she had to leave so soon.
These are some of the same questions I would ask of my parents, who have both been deceased for many years. We hope they are happy and comfortable where they are (and hope there is a “where they are”). I wonder if either or both have acted as my guardian angels and I would want to know if it is true that deceased loved ones gather when you are ready to cross over, to help and keep you company. I hope you have found some peace in this imaginary exercise.
After reading what you wrote, I think if we sat on your porch together we’d probably share our experiences of the day our children died. My Jason died in an accident when he was 14. I’m sorry you are part of what I call the sisterhood of sorrow — those of us who lost children before they could grow up. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who wonders how old my child is in Heaven.